Learning from Failure

 Failure!!! Nobody wants this word in his/her dictionary or in life. It's a very disappointing situation. But every person has to face failure somewhere in his/her journey of life. Some take it as a lesson and some gets break down due to it. 

How one can take failure as a lesson? What can we learn from our failure? Is it really possible to learn anything from failure? These types of questions might come into our mind if we talk about learning from our failures. But it's absolutely correct that most of the life lessons have been learnt from the failures. 

It is said that "Failure is the key to success"  or FAIL means "First Attempt In Learning". It is absolutely correct. This attitude towards failure is the only difference between the successful person and the unsuccessful one.  Your success depends on how you take your failures. 

If you read the success story of any successful person you would definitely find one or more failure stories in the background of this success. Every success is built on the foundation of some failures.  

So, how can one learn from failures? What can be learnt from failures? Definitely, there is a lot more to learn from failures in life and to move towards the path of success. 

If we want to learn from failures then first of all we should have a positive approach towards failure. We should accept failure as it is, without blaming anyone not blame even ourselves. Because whenever we take a decision out of various options or choices, we select the best according to the situations at that time. So, we should never regret for our decisions or choices. Hence, acceptance of failure is the first step in learning from failure. 

Now after acceptance of failure in it's original form, next step is to analyse our failure. In this process we need to write down all the negative as well as positive points related to our failure without any bias. In this step, we need to be truthful to ourselves. When we are writing all the negative points during analysis process, we come to know about various such factors or areas, on which we need to work to convert those factors into positive one or those weak areas into our strength. Similarly, after knowing about our positive points or strength, we will have some confidence to give our plan another try, obviously improved one. This confidence is the energy booster for our next plan. 

After the completion of analysis stage, now it is the time to work on improvement of all our negative points. In this stage, there is a requirement of knowledge, hard work, positive mindset and a zeal to get success in next attempt. This stage is also a crucial stage, it is the time where we need to make ourselves stronger. If we don't have knowledge about something then we should gain the knowledge about that. If we feel tired then we should take rest but don't even think to leave the idea. Many negative things may come to our mind, even many persons in our surrounding also doubt on our capabilities, ignore them all. Just focus on our goal. Just focus on our future success. Just think positively that soon we are going to achieve our goal, our desired success.  

Once we able to cope up with all the negativities in last stage with our positive attitude, success is ours. Cheers!!!! 

Many persons used to break down or go into depression after some failure and destroy their future. It's not correct my friends. 

Never doubt on yourself. Always keep a positive attitude. Try to acquire as much knowledge as you can and keep smiling. 

Success will be yours definitely.